11 Mar
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I am currently pondering the fact of letting my daughter's bio father sign his rights off. He has not exercised his rights in 3 1/2 years (Jesslyn is 4 now) However, he does have insurance on her, pay daycare, and child support even if I'm not satisfied with the amount. I met a man when my daughter was 6 months old and thought he was the "one". He has two children himself that he obtains custody of. We split 2 years ago and have been separate ever since. We never got married I'm not in to that lol. She knows the man I met when she was 6 months old as her "daddy" not Jason. To this day Jason takes her weekends, holidays, when I'm in a jam and etc. He's an excellent father not only to my own but his children as well. We communicate greatly but that "love" is just not there for me. I respect him more than anything and most of all I'm thankful. Her biological father is well aware of the situation and wishes not now, or ever to see my daughter. Should I let her bio father sign his rights off? This means he will no longer be obligated to paying child support and having insurance on her correct?He still needs to pay child supportnope he should not be off the hook, that is his child and one day I hope he regrets the way he treated his own flesh in blood....I would speak to her father about it. He DOES take financial responsibility, however it takes a real man to be a DADDY! I couldn't imagine not wanting to see your child and watch them grow up! Maybe he was not ready to be a father, so you need to figure out if he is and wants to step up and get to know his daughter, or diminish his rights and then you will be unable to get that assistance-- daycare, child support, and insurance. The guy who she thinks is her father, I am sure is as wonderful as you say, however, he legally does not have any obligation to her, so you have to think "what if?" because you cannot rely on someone who is not her father to be around. Not saying that will happen, but hypothetically speaking-- you just never know! You have to in the end do what is in the best interest of your child. Right now she is young and whatever mommys says goes, they really look up to us, you feel me? I come from a broken family, however I am very close with both of my parents. If her real dad doesn't even see her and she does not really know him, then she may think it's her fault, so that's very tough for you. But if he does not wish to see HIS daughter, then that tells me something about what kind of MAN he is. Whether you guys are together or not that is his daughter whether he likes it or not. Children are the most precious gift anyone could ever receive and some are unfortunate enough to never get that opportunity. HE is the only one missing out! In the end HE will have to answer for it! Good Luck!Absolutely not. Your daughter deserves to know that she at least has a father. Provided he's still paying child support and keeping her on his insurance, it would seem that the person who will suffer in the long term is your daughter. Initially, you'll have to pick up the financial slack, but just wait until she can make her own decision about whether she wants to try and know him. You owe her that much.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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