11 Mar
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attractive person?
If people only appreciated you for your personality would that be okay?No because being attractive isn't just useful for romantic purposes. Good looking people are better liked and more successful. It sounds shallow but people want to be associated with attractive people.Even before I was married, I'd prefer people to appreciate me for my personality over my physical appearance.Whatever dude . . . It doesn't matter if they're married or not. Attraction has no boundaries. Women are sexy . . . bottom line.Oh my gosh! That would be heaven! Yeah....as long as I was not forced into some sort of weird regimine with no makeup, ugly clothes and forced to each 5 boxes of twinkies a day.Sure it would. I value my personality more, anyway.It's always nice to be appreciated for all my attributes, personality included, the only person I really care about finding me attractive is my husband.Not if it meant wearing a burka.You have two questions, first one. Human beings are naturally attracted to others they find appealing or physically attractive. Looking at someone because you find them attractive is not a crime, Being married is not going to change how others view you or your level of attractiveness to others.
Actually, I love it when people are able to look past my physical and realize I have a mind and intelligence. That is a huge turn on for me. That is AOK with me. I don't care if every man ignores how I look as long as he still drools.I'd say that that happens to most married women................because usually once they trap a man, they stop taking care of themselves and gain a bunch of weight, and presto! No one looks at themAll women, whether married or not, no matter their age or physical make up, are beautiful creaturesI would be quite happy for other people to not find me attractive so long as my husband still found me desirable (which happily for me it seems he does).Would my husband still think I'm physically attractive?
If so, I would be okay with that.What? Are you trying to say marriage makes you ugly?Heck no, that wouldn't be ok.
Since our society (and MEN) put such a huge focus on a woman's looks, we usually value ourselves that way, too. Therefore, we very much do need constant affirmation that we are beautiful.
However, when I was married, it wasn't a desire to be desired (like when you're single), it was more like I wanted people to tell my husband, "Man, you're wife looks great." I wanted him to be proud.
Buuuuuuuuuuuut, he cheated on me, so f*** him. :)It won't matter to me because the only one I care about will be what my husband thinks..If a woman got married would she suddenly become unattractive? If anything men may find her more attractive since she is taken.Yup. I'm fine with that. While it is flattering to be noticed by others, it doesn't really make or break my self confidence. I have a wonderful husband who loves me for me, and can't get enough of me (pregnant and chubby though I am LOL). It doesn't matter if no other man on earth thinks I'm pretty. He thinks I rock and that's good enough for me.WTF??
The ring goes on and you fall out of the ugly tree hitting every branch on the way down??
Sounds pretty lame to meYes, I am married so I don't want anyone else to desire me or look at my body. I don't see why it's so hard to understand, I just want to be friends with other men, itr's irritating to have them find me attractive.
Why be friends with someone that thinks you are attractiuve, and doesn't value your personality?#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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